Not every relationship turns out to be a fairy tale. Sometimes, we end up with people that are just players or are just not good enough for us. It always happens. Theres no one person in this world that hasnt suffered from late nite ice cream or drinking because someone broke their heart. Love is about pain, but it shouldnt change the way you are as a person. Love is a nice feeling but in the end, you must be open to faliures. When it comes to love, it is never 100%.
So if a guy hurts you ladies, it can be either physically or mentally, you have to always remember this: you are better off without him. dont question yourself of why it failed. he wasnt good enough for you. I know tons of stories of girls that guilt themselves. thats BS! thats all a game guys play on girls, so dont fall for that. if he truly cared throughout your relationship, he would end the relationship with a gentle goodbye and not through a facebook, myspace, text etc. be a man guys! be honest with the girl and dont play games when it comes to breaking up.
Now for you guys, if she broke up with you. leave her alone. shes an ex. dont text her. dont do that! thats why shes an ex! its good to still talk to your ex but in the case of guys, i advise not to! it will always get in the way of any future relationship with someone else. let them go.
this also goes for the girls. if a guy treated u wrong. let him go. forget him. hes an ass. hes no good. dont pay him any attention and please.. this is the number one thing not to do!!
dont blame the opposite sex for another persons mistake. thats just wrong. what if theres is someone who really does care about you. be open, love is about pain but also gain!. this happens alot to guys who want to be with a girl but that have to work harder as a result of an asshole who messed up!
In essence, be open, meet new people and dont shut down future relationships. Take the risk! you might get hurt but are you really going to wait around all your life. life is pain but life is also about gain, thats my motto. so just apply those lessons to your life and you will see that you will meet that person.
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This is cool Esteban! Here some of my thoughts:
One thing that everyone has to remember after a break-up: Be happy for the time you were happy and don't regret anything. You deserved that happiness.. even if it didn't turn out right.
And how to get over an asshole: Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Have pride! There is someone else out there who will be better for you, who will be more than grateful for the love they will receive from you (and you will get back in return). The more relationships you have and people you meet, your list of all the characteristics your dream-partner should have will grow and you will be more choosy... which in the end will make for a better partner in the future who fits to you :)
And remember: You can't change anyone. It's a simple secret that has long term effects. You have to take a person as s/he is.
-Zaza
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