Justin Timberlake "My Love"
-If I wrote you a symphony,
Just to say how much you mean to me, what would you do?
If I told you you were beautiful
Would you date me on the regular.. tell me, would you?
Well, baby I've been around the world
But I ain't seen myself another girl
This ring here represents my heart
But there's just one thing I need from you
Yeah, because
I can see us holding hands
Walking on the beach, our toes in the sand
I can see us on the countryside
Sitting on the grass, laying side by side
You could be my baby, let me make you my lady
Girl, you amaze me
Ain't gotta do nothing crazy
See, all I want you to do is be my love
-Toby Love "Please dont cry"
Con solo una Mirada me pones como un loco a temblar
Y con una sonrisa me das la felicidad
Tenerte hoy aquI poder hablarte asi
Desde hace tiempo lo queria hacer
pero te vehia con el
(No importa) Lo sierto es que hoy te puedo hablar de amor
(Escucha) Como me palpita el Corazon
Por que mi sueno se realiso, tomar tu mano querio yo
Y acariciarte con mi voz?¦?¦.
Please don't cry
Ya se que ese bandido te engano mi amor
Please don't cry
No pienses en pasado y ve el presente hoy
No don't cry
Sere como tu sombra y te protejere
Eres la nina que sone (siempre.)
Noches, semanas sin perder la fe
De lejos te mire
Con Cuidado de no, ser descubierto por el tonto aquel
(Sabia que al final) Ese tramposo te iva a mentir
Por eso fui pasientemente asechandote para mi.
Luis Fonsi- Aqui Estoy yo
Aquí estoy yo
para hacerte reír a vez mas
confía en mi deja tus miedos atrás y ya veras
aquí estoy yo con un beso quemándome los labios
es para ti puede tu vida cambiar
déjame entrar
Le pido al sol que una estrella azul
viaje hasta a ti y te enamores en su luz
Aquí estoy yo
abriéndote mi corazón
llenando tu falta de amor
cerrándole el paso al dolor
no temas yo te cuidare
solo acéptame
damn..im tired..but you get the point guys..lmfao
Feb 12, 2010
Feb 10, 2010
Valentines Day.
Feb 14...my birthday and also the day of love. is this a joke? i dunno why people put so much effort on this day, its a normal day. love shouldnt be one day, it should be everyday. vday is also my bday but that doesnt mean i have to promote it. my bday is my bday. i always see this on vday. many stores trying to sell flowers at ridiculous prices.. thats messed up. love equals money. i thought love was free. nah, i wont go that far to say that. so there you have. my point of view with regards to vday
how to get over a break up. let me see...lmao
everyone goes through break ups. there are part of life. some end on good terms, while others look like world wars.this blog goes for both males and females. i already went through the reasons as to why people cheat and those reasons are part of why people break up but, this blog is focused on the aftermath. Nowadays, people have cell phones, twitter, facebook, blogs, etcc. to communicate with everyone, which causes a major problem to overcome a break up. In other words, the new age of communication is destructive. First thing you must do, is erase that person from facebook because everyone has facebook. then from myspace, twitter, hi5,email account. everything! secondly, by now you know the persons number by heart, so try forgetting it.and yes erase that number from your phone. try texting alot of people so much, that you forget their number. also give back that person everything they gave u. even if it was a gift. if you really want to get over them. u have to do this..some people will disagree because they want to keep the good memories. nooooo!!! thats bullshit. please.. u broke up for a reason and now give away everything. start fresh.thats how you will really be able to become a better person and also, you wont be as closed off when someone else comes in your life. also, many people take some time off of relationships to reflect as to what happened etc.. something else thats bullshit. it didnt work, maybe the break up ended badly but you cant be putting your life on hold like that. you have to live. meet new people..thats life. so basically, if you give up on love, you are basically saying that person controls your life so much that you wont give someone else your time? now thats messed up. alot of people do this and end up messing up later on because they thought they were over their ex, which they never were because they tried to reflect upon the break up. in essence, meet new people. thats very important. it will help you forget. anyone disagree?
My life. lol
Ive been giving advice about relationships and dating since day one, and now let me tell you something about the cupid blog creator. I dunno why, but im a risk taker. If i see the chance to talk to someone, i take it. I always have good stories to tell my friends about females. It may be a story about one girl or a story about another girl, but they are always funny. Some stories are about how i messed up, how the girl messed up, how we both messed up or how im just too crazy to take all these risks. love is about risk and i always risk it. but i always get hurt too. I never want to go through life thinking i never put my 110 percent. thats why maybe people love my stories, sometimes i forget that im telling them the same old stories but with different endings. maybe im unlucky but im a risk taker. so for all the people that are heart broken or are just too scared to function, take that risk. im still standing! it doesnt matter if you male or female. love is love. it is unfair to all of us. truth be told, its kind of exciting taking risks because you never know what to expect. its also bad because you can really hurt in the end and end up telling your friends stories that makes them want to kill you. lol well guys. hope u enjoyed a little insight from the creator.
Jan 26, 2010
How to get over an asshole? ( for the guys and girls)
Not every relationship turns out to be a fairy tale. Sometimes, we end up with people that are just players or are just not good enough for us. It always happens. Theres no one person in this world that hasnt suffered from late nite ice cream or drinking because someone broke their heart. Love is about pain, but it shouldnt change the way you are as a person. Love is a nice feeling but in the end, you must be open to faliures. When it comes to love, it is never 100%.
So if a guy hurts you ladies, it can be either physically or mentally, you have to always remember this: you are better off without him. dont question yourself of why it failed. he wasnt good enough for you. I know tons of stories of girls that guilt themselves. thats BS! thats all a game guys play on girls, so dont fall for that. if he truly cared throughout your relationship, he would end the relationship with a gentle goodbye and not through a facebook, myspace, text etc. be a man guys! be honest with the girl and dont play games when it comes to breaking up.
Now for you guys, if she broke up with you. leave her alone. shes an ex. dont text her. dont do that! thats why shes an ex! its good to still talk to your ex but in the case of guys, i advise not to! it will always get in the way of any future relationship with someone else. let them go.
this also goes for the girls. if a guy treated u wrong. let him go. forget him. hes an ass. hes no good. dont pay him any attention and please.. this is the number one thing not to do!!
dont blame the opposite sex for another persons mistake. thats just wrong. what if theres is someone who really does care about you. be open, love is about pain but also gain!. this happens alot to guys who want to be with a girl but that have to work harder as a result of an asshole who messed up!
In essence, be open, meet new people and dont shut down future relationships. Take the risk! you might get hurt but are you really going to wait around all your life. life is pain but life is also about gain, thats my motto. so just apply those lessons to your life and you will see that you will meet that person.
So if a guy hurts you ladies, it can be either physically or mentally, you have to always remember this: you are better off without him. dont question yourself of why it failed. he wasnt good enough for you. I know tons of stories of girls that guilt themselves. thats BS! thats all a game guys play on girls, so dont fall for that. if he truly cared throughout your relationship, he would end the relationship with a gentle goodbye and not through a facebook, myspace, text etc. be a man guys! be honest with the girl and dont play games when it comes to breaking up.
Now for you guys, if she broke up with you. leave her alone. shes an ex. dont text her. dont do that! thats why shes an ex! its good to still talk to your ex but in the case of guys, i advise not to! it will always get in the way of any future relationship with someone else. let them go.
this also goes for the girls. if a guy treated u wrong. let him go. forget him. hes an ass. hes no good. dont pay him any attention and please.. this is the number one thing not to do!!
dont blame the opposite sex for another persons mistake. thats just wrong. what if theres is someone who really does care about you. be open, love is about pain but also gain!. this happens alot to guys who want to be with a girl but that have to work harder as a result of an asshole who messed up!
In essence, be open, meet new people and dont shut down future relationships. Take the risk! you might get hurt but are you really going to wait around all your life. life is pain but life is also about gain, thats my motto. so just apply those lessons to your life and you will see that you will meet that person.
Jan 21, 2010
"Bro Code"
the famous Bro code, how to break it? Well. this is secret which a guy like me shouldnt say but this is the cupid blog. its suppose to help people... so here it goes.
The bro code is not that complicated to understand.
You know guys have their bros before hoes BS, but this is the secret, if that girl is that special.. the bro code goes out the window. trust me.
girls have the art of seduction. so use that ladies.
If a guy prefers their guy friends than you.. than that guy is not worth it. it also depends on your situation but if your guy constantly puts your plans on hold because he wants to be with his guys, then why is he with you! common sense.
Also, if u start to notice a break on the bro code, you def making the guy fall for you ( this only applies to guys who have guys best friends though)
Most young guys have the bro code because they still immature. thats the main reason and they act stupid when their friends are there. thats one of the ways you can detect a immature guy.
However, guys need space from their girls. we love you but we need space. girls also need space to be with their girlfriends. everyone needs space. people who see each other everyday, go crazy!
so i hope u guys like. i know its really general but going into details is on a case by case study. so if you have any concerns about this. let me know
The bro code is not that complicated to understand.
You know guys have their bros before hoes BS, but this is the secret, if that girl is that special.. the bro code goes out the window. trust me.
girls have the art of seduction. so use that ladies.
If a guy prefers their guy friends than you.. than that guy is not worth it. it also depends on your situation but if your guy constantly puts your plans on hold because he wants to be with his guys, then why is he with you! common sense.
Also, if u start to notice a break on the bro code, you def making the guy fall for you ( this only applies to guys who have guys best friends though)
Most young guys have the bro code because they still immature. thats the main reason and they act stupid when their friends are there. thats one of the ways you can detect a immature guy.
However, guys need space from their girls. we love you but we need space. girls also need space to be with their girlfriends. everyone needs space. people who see each other everyday, go crazy!
so i hope u guys like. i know its really general but going into details is on a case by case study. so if you have any concerns about this. let me know
Can someone get out of the "friend zone"?
Ladies and gentleman, how do people fall into the friend zone? very simple. you are too scared to tell the person you interested in how you really feel. People are not mind readers, you have to be aggressive, not to aggressive, but aggressive enough to show the other person you want something. you want love. lol
First of all, if you are childhood friends and have known this person for a while, trust me, its kinda late to ask this person. Maybe this person likes you, but she or he wont be waiting for you either. People can wait but they cant wait for 5-10years. lol So if you stuck in a childhood friend zone situation, this is what you should do. be honest with the person and tell him or her how you feel. it WILL affect the friendship not might, it will! but love is about taking risks. you have to take the risk. If you spend your life waiting around for your childhood friend to tell u they feel the same way, u will be waiting a very long time haha
Another example is when you meet someone for the first time and you interested in getting to know them. please people. dont ever go in groups if you want to get to know this person. this is common mistake people make. The other person will see this as other friend whose part of the group. One on one time is the best. you get to talk to the person. In a group, you will have "c**blockers" sorry for the language but its true. Groups tend to send this friend vibe. The only time its acceptable to be in a group is when you are in a relationship with someone, not when you are getting to know them. Dont get me wrong. you can do groups but try getting away from the group during the hang out if you can. Body language as well as your actions mean alot. words are nothing to be honest.
Basically, be confident, semi aggressive and understanding. Spend one on one time with person and see how it goes.
Be patient, but also show the other person you are not a friend.
Furthermore, if someone tells you "you are just a friend", they really mean it. dont pursue it. dont stalk!
there you go, blog number 4
First of all, if you are childhood friends and have known this person for a while, trust me, its kinda late to ask this person. Maybe this person likes you, but she or he wont be waiting for you either. People can wait but they cant wait for 5-10years. lol So if you stuck in a childhood friend zone situation, this is what you should do. be honest with the person and tell him or her how you feel. it WILL affect the friendship not might, it will! but love is about taking risks. you have to take the risk. If you spend your life waiting around for your childhood friend to tell u they feel the same way, u will be waiting a very long time haha
Another example is when you meet someone for the first time and you interested in getting to know them. please people. dont ever go in groups if you want to get to know this person. this is common mistake people make. The other person will see this as other friend whose part of the group. One on one time is the best. you get to talk to the person. In a group, you will have "c**blockers" sorry for the language but its true. Groups tend to send this friend vibe. The only time its acceptable to be in a group is when you are in a relationship with someone, not when you are getting to know them. Dont get me wrong. you can do groups but try getting away from the group during the hang out if you can. Body language as well as your actions mean alot. words are nothing to be honest.
Basically, be confident, semi aggressive and understanding. Spend one on one time with person and see how it goes.
Be patient, but also show the other person you are not a friend.
Furthermore, if someone tells you "you are just a friend", they really mean it. dont pursue it. dont stalk!
there you go, blog number 4
Jan 15, 2010
5 general reasons why people cheat.
Lets see...why do people cheat?
5 case studies
1. Person is a player, just looking to have fun.
2. The other person is not doing their job.
3. The person was never looking for something serious. Other person was too aggressive.
4. they are not over their ex
5. My favorite, it just happened but you know I love you.
Lets look at case study number 1.
Players- a person who thinks he or she is the s***.
Before you enter a relationship, you must be able to know the other persons past. You DO NOT stalk them, but know something about their sexual life. Never enter a relationship blind, because you will end up heart broken. Its fairly easy to spot a player. For women, its easier to spot a guy player because we all know.. girls love to talk.
For guys, its a little bit harder, but we risk it. Women know how to keep secrets from men because they have the art of seduction. If a women is a true player, she will know how to hide her sexual encounters. Then again, guys also have that art but, come on people, we all know women know how to seduce! lol
Theres a old saying: Once a player, always a player. Theres no way you can change someones ways. You must be a VERY VERY good catch to be able to change someone. Why go through the headache with a guy or girl player, find someone whose faithful. If you date a player, you will need to share them, I mean share them! body and everything! If you are not the jealous type, you are full of bullshit! lol
Case study number 2.
Relationships are mainly about putting the effort.
If one person is putting more effort than the other, the relationship wont last. A relationship is all about communication. Not just talking but understanding the other persons concerns etc. Many people think its just about listening, no! Its about having that trust!
If your guy or girl partner sucks in bed, thats a good reason to cheat. I'm not justifying it but thats one of the mains reasons people cheat. They want a fruitful sex life. Its a FACT! The key is this. If that other person does care about you, he or she will help you in your "lil problem" in the bed. now thats love.. With teamwork, you can accomplish a lot in a relationship. However, lets not fool ourselves, its rare that a couple will do this.. They must be really in love!
Case Study 3
To enter a relationship, both people must be on the same page. You cant be 60/40 in a relationship! never! It will piss the other person off! Do not fool yourself that time will make the other person like you, if they don't really want to be with you, it generally means, THEY DON'T! Do not push it! Thats why its best to take it slow. Get to know the persons habits. good or bad. Never rush into something serious because you dont really know the others persons intentions. Also, if you rush, you basically saying that you are sharing your life with someone else but you are being very stupid about it. Example, your best friends. it took time to establish that trust. Same thing with relationships. Give it a couple of months before entering something serious. The problem is that you might fall into the "friend zone" but i will speak about that later on in another blog.
Give it 2-4 months before getting in something serious. It depends also on how often you speak to that person. You also have to find out what kind of friends they have, family values.. all that BS we all need to find out sooner or later..lol
Basically, take it slow and be honest with the other person. Do not play games.... just in the bedroom.lol
Case Study 4. Beware of the Ex
Everyone has someone before you.its going to happen.. the key is not to get jealous but when your partner constantly talks about this person to you..thats a red flag my friend. Theres a reason there are an ex.. Thats the past.. If they weren't, why are they with you? Many guys and girls, are still hooked on their exes. The key is to understand what happened between them. Do not talk to your partner about it, but just look around. use common sense. theres a reason why they are an ex. Maybe your partner did something wrong, or the ex did.. these are very important questions to ask yourself.
again, dont get jealous, be understanding. Relationships are about two people, not a third party. If you are not looking for a relationship, then do not enter one. thats a simple rule to follow.
Case study 5. This I have heard a lot from many people.. its funny but sad.
To put it in plain words.. "The person who says this".... is a player, doesn't know what he or she wants..is just toying with you.. do not waste your time.
by the way, flirting is not cheating. Everyone flirts but once the flirt becomes too much..then thats cheating.. Do not get jealous..
so there you have it..
hope you enjoy.
5 case studies
1. Person is a player, just looking to have fun.
2. The other person is not doing their job.
3. The person was never looking for something serious. Other person was too aggressive.
4. they are not over their ex
5. My favorite, it just happened but you know I love you.
Lets look at case study number 1.
Players- a person who thinks he or she is the s***.
Before you enter a relationship, you must be able to know the other persons past. You DO NOT stalk them, but know something about their sexual life. Never enter a relationship blind, because you will end up heart broken. Its fairly easy to spot a player. For women, its easier to spot a guy player because we all know.. girls love to talk.
For guys, its a little bit harder, but we risk it. Women know how to keep secrets from men because they have the art of seduction. If a women is a true player, she will know how to hide her sexual encounters. Then again, guys also have that art but, come on people, we all know women know how to seduce! lol
Theres a old saying: Once a player, always a player. Theres no way you can change someones ways. You must be a VERY VERY good catch to be able to change someone. Why go through the headache with a guy or girl player, find someone whose faithful. If you date a player, you will need to share them, I mean share them! body and everything! If you are not the jealous type, you are full of bullshit! lol
Case study number 2.
Relationships are mainly about putting the effort.
If one person is putting more effort than the other, the relationship wont last. A relationship is all about communication. Not just talking but understanding the other persons concerns etc. Many people think its just about listening, no! Its about having that trust!
If your guy or girl partner sucks in bed, thats a good reason to cheat. I'm not justifying it but thats one of the mains reasons people cheat. They want a fruitful sex life. Its a FACT! The key is this. If that other person does care about you, he or she will help you in your "lil problem" in the bed. now thats love.. With teamwork, you can accomplish a lot in a relationship. However, lets not fool ourselves, its rare that a couple will do this.. They must be really in love!
Case Study 3
To enter a relationship, both people must be on the same page. You cant be 60/40 in a relationship! never! It will piss the other person off! Do not fool yourself that time will make the other person like you, if they don't really want to be with you, it generally means, THEY DON'T! Do not push it! Thats why its best to take it slow. Get to know the persons habits. good or bad. Never rush into something serious because you dont really know the others persons intentions. Also, if you rush, you basically saying that you are sharing your life with someone else but you are being very stupid about it. Example, your best friends. it took time to establish that trust. Same thing with relationships. Give it a couple of months before entering something serious. The problem is that you might fall into the "friend zone" but i will speak about that later on in another blog.
Give it 2-4 months before getting in something serious. It depends also on how often you speak to that person. You also have to find out what kind of friends they have, family values.. all that BS we all need to find out sooner or later..lol
Basically, take it slow and be honest with the other person. Do not play games.... just in the bedroom.lol
Case Study 4. Beware of the Ex
Everyone has someone before you.its going to happen.. the key is not to get jealous but when your partner constantly talks about this person to you..thats a red flag my friend. Theres a reason there are an ex.. Thats the past.. If they weren't, why are they with you? Many guys and girls, are still hooked on their exes. The key is to understand what happened between them. Do not talk to your partner about it, but just look around. use common sense. theres a reason why they are an ex. Maybe your partner did something wrong, or the ex did.. these are very important questions to ask yourself.
again, dont get jealous, be understanding. Relationships are about two people, not a third party. If you are not looking for a relationship, then do not enter one. thats a simple rule to follow.
Case study 5. This I have heard a lot from many people.. its funny but sad.
To put it in plain words.. "The person who says this".... is a player, doesn't know what he or she wants..is just toying with you.. do not waste your time.
by the way, flirting is not cheating. Everyone flirts but once the flirt becomes too much..then thats cheating.. Do not get jealous..
so there you have it..
hope you enjoy.
Jan 13, 2010
How to make a girl fall for you..The 5 general rules
Now guys listen up..if you looking just to have a "fun time" this is not for you. later on i will direct my attention to all those players out there.lol
So, first rule guys.. Do not stalk the girl. Theres nothing more creepy to a girl than a guy whose up her ass 24/7. Give her space. You can text her, call her however a girl prefers ONE text.thats all. let her respond. Do not send like 100 texts if she doesn't respond. If shes interested, she will respond. lol
Second rule. Show her you care. Text her good morning or good night. text her once in a while..just to see how shes doing.
Third Rule and one of the most important. If you really care about this girl. just talk to ONLY her. do not be a player. do not have back up plans. The reason I say this is because if you really get into something serious with the girl you interested in, what do you about the others? Try to avoid this dilemma guys! its not worth it. its funny but not worth it.
Fourth Rule. Do not be too aggressive. Ive had situations in which I was too aggressive and I messed up. Its not a pretty situation. Take it slow. Get to know the girl. Do not brag, ask her questions. Show her you really want to get to know her.
Fifth Rule. If none of these rules work, its not worth it dude. Depending on the situation, if you see that my rules are not working, then leave. If you see some progress, it up to you. When it comes to getting into something serious, its all about being PATIENT!. dont rush!
So there you go. rules for guys.
next blog will be about "signs of no interest"
So, first rule guys.. Do not stalk the girl. Theres nothing more creepy to a girl than a guy whose up her ass 24/7. Give her space. You can text her, call her however a girl prefers ONE text.thats all. let her respond. Do not send like 100 texts if she doesn't respond. If shes interested, she will respond. lol
Second rule. Show her you care. Text her good morning or good night. text her once in a while..just to see how shes doing.
Third Rule and one of the most important. If you really care about this girl. just talk to ONLY her. do not be a player. do not have back up plans. The reason I say this is because if you really get into something serious with the girl you interested in, what do you about the others? Try to avoid this dilemma guys! its not worth it. its funny but not worth it.
Fourth Rule. Do not be too aggressive. Ive had situations in which I was too aggressive and I messed up. Its not a pretty situation. Take it slow. Get to know the girl. Do not brag, ask her questions. Show her you really want to get to know her.
Fifth Rule. If none of these rules work, its not worth it dude. Depending on the situation, if you see that my rules are not working, then leave. If you see some progress, it up to you. When it comes to getting into something serious, its all about being PATIENT!. dont rush!
So there you go. rules for guys.
next blog will be about "signs of no interest"
How to make a guy fall for you? Three general rules to follow
Rule number one ladies. never ever. show too much interest in the guy you are interested in. To be honest, most guys see that as a major turn off because they see that as a easy win, and not as something that they needed to fight for. Men love to fight for what they want; therefore, make him wait for you. However, give the guy some signs that you interested, because if you don't, another girl will take him from you. The only expectation to this rule is if you don't really care about this guy, and you just looking for a "fun time".
Rule number two. Never give it up on the "official" first date-third date. That shows the guy that you are easy and that you are just like every girl out there. Do not get me wrong, guys want you but if you really want a guy to fall for you, you must follow this rule. Guys go crazy when a girl doesn't give him what he wants. Most guys, a least the ones that date a lot, are use to easy girls. So if you deny him the right to "have fun", you will make work harder. In the end, by him working harder, he might end up falling for you. Most of my close friends, who date alot will agree with me on this rule. For example, if a guy sleeps around with numerous women, what will be your perception of that guy? is he date able?
Rule number three. Dont play games! IF you are looking for a immature little boy, then play games.
However, if you are looking for a guy whose educated, has a sense of humor etc, please don't play games. These type of men are hard to find and if you play games, you will piss him off. It really depends on the type of guy you like but, for the most part, be honest with the guy, because later on in life. someone else in life will play games with you.
Well there you have it. the first blog..tell me what you think.
Rule number two. Never give it up on the "official" first date-third date. That shows the guy that you are easy and that you are just like every girl out there. Do not get me wrong, guys want you but if you really want a guy to fall for you, you must follow this rule. Guys go crazy when a girl doesn't give him what he wants. Most guys, a least the ones that date a lot, are use to easy girls. So if you deny him the right to "have fun", you will make work harder. In the end, by him working harder, he might end up falling for you. Most of my close friends, who date alot will agree with me on this rule. For example, if a guy sleeps around with numerous women, what will be your perception of that guy? is he date able?
Rule number three. Dont play games! IF you are looking for a immature little boy, then play games.
However, if you are looking for a guy whose educated, has a sense of humor etc, please don't play games. These type of men are hard to find and if you play games, you will piss him off. It really depends on the type of guy you like but, for the most part, be honest with the guy, because later on in life. someone else in life will play games with you.
Well there you have it. the first blog..tell me what you think.
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