how to get over a break up. let me see...lmao

everyone goes through break ups. there are part of life. some end on good terms, while others look like world wars.this blog goes for both males and females. i already went through the reasons as to why people cheat and those reasons are part of why people break up but, this blog is focused on the aftermath. Nowadays, people have cell phones, twitter, facebook, blogs, etcc. to communicate with everyone, which causes a major problem to overcome a break up. In other words, the new age of communication is destructive. First thing you must do, is erase that person from facebook because everyone has facebook. then from myspace, twitter, hi5,email account. everything! secondly, by now you know the persons number by heart, so try forgetting it.and yes erase that number from your phone. try texting alot of people so much, that you forget their number. also give back that person everything they gave u. even if it was a gift. if you really want to get over them. u have to do this..some people will disagree because they want to keep the good memories. nooooo!!! thats bullshit. please.. u broke up for a reason and now give away everything. start fresh.thats how you will really be able to become a better person and also, you wont be as closed off when someone else comes in your life. also, many people take some time off of relationships to reflect as to what happened etc.. something else thats bullshit. it didnt work, maybe the break up ended badly but you cant be putting your life on hold like that. you have to live. meet new people..thats life. so basically, if you give up on love, you are basically saying that person controls your life so much that you wont give someone else your time? now thats messed up. alot of people do this and end up messing up later on because they thought they were over their ex, which they never were because they tried to reflect upon the break up. in essence, meet new people. thats very important. it will help you forget. anyone disagree?