Rule number one ladies. never ever. show too much interest in the guy you are interested in. To be honest, most guys see that as a major turn off because they see that as a easy win, and not as something that they needed to fight for. Men love to fight for what they want; therefore, make him wait for you. However, give the guy some signs that you interested, because if you don't, another girl will take him from you. The only expectation to this rule is if you don't really care about this guy, and you just looking for a "fun time".
Rule number two. Never give it up on the "official" first date-third date. That shows the guy that you are easy and that you are just like every girl out there. Do not get me wrong, guys want you but if you really want a guy to fall for you, you must follow this rule. Guys go crazy when a girl doesn't give him what he wants. Most guys, a least the ones that date a lot, are use to easy girls. So if you deny him the right to "have fun", you will make work harder. In the end, by him working harder, he might end up falling for you. Most of my close friends, who date alot will agree with me on this rule. For example, if a guy sleeps around with numerous women, what will be your perception of that guy? is he date able?
Rule number three. Dont play games! IF you are looking for a immature little boy, then play games.
However, if you are looking for a guy whose educated, has a sense of humor etc, please don't play games. These type of men are hard to find and if you play games, you will piss him off. It really depends on the type of guy you like but, for the most part, be honest with the guy, because later on in life. someone else in life will play games with you.
Well there you have it. the first blog..tell me what you think.
1 comment:
Nice post Esteban... LOL
My blog will be a hard hitter, you can be Ask Alice.
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